Fairy godmothers and the decline of family values
After finishing my comments on fairy-tales (PJ, 22 May, p648), I took another look at the classic work by Edwin Sidney Hartland, ‘The science of fairy tales — an enquiry into fairy mythology’ (1891).
This is a long and detailed investigation into the popular traditions
associated with the fairy superstitions mainly of the Celtic and Teutonic
peoples, but straying into the folklore of more distant cultures. Hartland
comments: “By means of a story the savage philosopher accounts
for his own existence and that of all the phenomena which surround
him. With a story the mothers of the wildest tribes awe their little
ones into silence, or rouse them into delight. And the weary hunters
beguile the long silence of a desert night with the mirth and wonders
of a tale.”
Obviously story-telling is one of the calming and civilising measures
that we humans have adopted to enable us to bring up our children to
hold to a moral code. The more we look at fairy-tales the more we realise
that they present individuals of probity and moral worth but, even more
significantly, others are guided in their conduct by the deadly sins
of violence, hatred, jealousy, avarice and arrogance. Step-sisters stop
at nothing to destroy their own kin; powerful princes cannot allow any
infringements of their right to dictate to others; the strong rob the
weak. When they think it necessary, the evildoers have recourse to wicked
fairies or dragons to carry out their plans. At the other extreme, those
who are subjected to ill-treatment appeal to fairy godmothers to rescue
them. And as Shelley remarks: “Each child has its fairy godmother
in its own soul.” In addition, there are wild animals to lend a
hand when necessary.
The notion that an individual threatened by evil and selfish people may
have recourse to others who are capable and generous and will rush to
assist the victim of injustice, is a valuable one in the consciousness
of a young human. All the more reason, then, for parents to read fairy-tales
in the home. Through such a medium children will grow up knowing that
the world is full of unscrupulous and greedy people, but that alongside
these are the generous and helpful ones who are at hand when the need
calls.
One of the shortcomings of society in these days of haste and tunnel
vision is that children are frequently neglected when parents imagine
themselves too busy making a living to spend time in the home to read
stories. Of course, some adjustment of the competitive atmosphere of
the workplace is needed so that more time and attention can be paid to
bringing up children. Forward, fairy godmothers!
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